We Treat You Like Family

How to make divorce easier on the children

On Behalf of | Dec 1, 2022 | Divorce |

Even when parents in Missouri attempt to resolve their differences, sometimes divorce is their only option. Unfortunately, divorce can take an emotional toll on the children involved. Here are a couple of tips for making the divorce process easier for young children.

Avoid badmouthing the other parent

Two divorcing parents would be wise to discuss each other in a favorable manner when in front of their children. Speaking negatively about the other party will only hurt their children, as children naturally find their identities in both parents. Instead of bashing the other parent, a divorcing parent should ideally focus on connecting more with his or her children.

Listen to the children

Parents can also make their divorce easier for their children simply by listening to them. Engaging the support of a therapist can help with this process. The goal is to give the children attention and acknowledge their feelings and thoughts. This will help them to feel valued and important amid their parents’ marital breakup.

Seek professional help and support

Seeking the help of an experienced Missouri family law attorney right away may also help to make the divorce process less traumatic for young children. An attorney can help a divorcing parent to pursue a fair and comprehensive settlement with the other parent outside of court, which can be less stressful for the family compared with going through divorce litigation. However, one’s attorney will also be fully prepared to take matters to court if necessary, in order to protect his or her client’s rights while increasing the odds of achieving the best possible outcome.

FindLaw Network
St. Louis County Bar Association
Illinois State Bar Association
LEX | The Missouri Bar